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Twice monthly group coaching for late-realized autistic ADHDers who want to stop involuntarily masking & reclaim control while being radically, undeniably, and sustainably authentic

In recent years, an enormous amount of people (myself included) have learned that we spent decades of our lives as undiagnosed or under-supported autistic ADHDers.

Some call this recent influx of auDHDers a “trend,” but I see it as an inevitable result of the late-stage capitalism that burned us all out, plus a global pandemic that slowed us down for just long enough to finally be able to tell our stories and connect in ways that we couldn’t do under hustle culture.

But despite the growing numbers of adults having this realization, there is still a gross lack of resources and community for those of us with the ADHD/autistic combo meal, and I’ve made it my personal mission to change that.

Being an auDHDer is one of the most unique & paradoxical neurotypes out there

The ADHD half of us craves novelty and chaos, while the autistic half wants structure and predictability.

ADHD is really social and wants do to all the things, but autism needs 4-5 business weeks to recover afterwards.

Autism wants to create carefully curated and fool-proof systems and routines, but ADHD either gets bored and wants to change it or else forgets a crucial step every time.

Have you ever dysregulated yourself due to your own impulsivity? Yeah, me too.

It’s like being Goldilocks on steroids.

So what do we do about it? Enter: The Combo Platter.

The Combo Platter is a community designed specifically for auDHDers, by an auDHDer.

During my 4.5 years as an auDHD coach helping clients understand and navigate their combo meals, two things have stood out to me:

1) Every single autistic ADHDer has a totally unique set of strengths, needs, desires, values, experiences, and perspectives that is unlike any other human I’ve ever encountered

and

2) We’ve all experienced nearly identical themes, patterns, cycles, and traumas throughout our lives that only another auDHDer can truly understand

I set out to create a program that would honor our unique experiences and individual needs while also providing a sense of community, visibility, and belonging that so many of us have lacked throughout our lives, and the Combo Platter does exactly that.

A place where you'll instantly feel like you just belong, without you having to work to "fit in"

The results you can expect as a community member:

✨ Feeling seen and heard as you actually are without having to mask or pretend

✨ Confidence to advocate for yourself and ask for the support you need, whether it’s a helping hand or a promotion at work

✨ Knowing when to remove toxic or otherwise harmful people from your life so you can save your energy for those who see, respect, and love you for who you are

✨ Cultivating more meaningful friendships and relationships, and deepening the connections in your current ones

✨ Making mistakes without beating yourself up and instead enjoying life as the big long learning process it actually is

✨ Finding a balance between your chaotic, multi-passionate, rambunctious ADHD side and your logical, analytical, structure-oriented autistic side

The Details

When you join the Combo Platter, you'll get:

✨ Live, twice-monthly group coaching calls every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month at 3pm ET/12pm PT with me to have live discussions and get advice or support in real time, plus access to recordings in case you miss them or want to rewatch

✨ The archive of calls from the 3 years this program has been running; that's over 70+ hours of content that will make you feel heard and understood instantly!

✨ Access to a growing Discord community to connect with others, share memes, get support, body double, and connect with each other between calls

✨ A feeling like there's finally somewhere you just belong without you having to work to "fit in" 

✨ The knowledge that you are part of a collective that is dedicated to supporting each other and providing a space to be messy, lean into discomfort, and ultimately help each other feel "normal" in a world that seems anything but

✨ A world of gratitude from me, because you'll be helping me create even more resources and programming for the neurodivergent & auDHD community by supporting my work!

I hope to see you there!

Pricing

The Combo Platter is supported by a tiered, choose-your-price model that honors your budget & comfort level while supporting an interdependent exchange of resources.

Please read the following criteria and determine which price is appropriate for you:

$5/month

Choose this tier if you are low on financial resources but are still committed to joining and participating in the community.

By choosing this price, you are letting your community support you and investing in yourself without sacrificing your needs.

$25/month

Choose this tier if you have a comfortable amount of financial resources and are committed to joining and participating in the community.

By choosing this price, you are paying for your access to this program and leaving the lowest tier option for those who need it most.

$50/month

Choose this tier if you have some extra financial resources, are committed to joining and participating in the community, and want to help create more space for those who can afford less.

By choosing this price, you are helping contribute to a more equitable community by supporting access for those with less.

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Statement of Scope & Competency

I strive to hold space and offer solutions that are human-centered, trauma-informed, and inclusive of each individual’s lived experience and social identities. I have completed a trauma-informed space holding curriculum, am actively engaged in anti-racism study and work, and in deconstructing capitalistic standards and values.

I want to make it clear that I cannot guarantee a safe space for you. I recognize that you are the judge of what feels safe and expansive for you. My intention is to allow you to access your internal safety as best as you can in our current social climate through ample consent, choice, and clarity in our time together.

My offers and services are not meant to be a replacement for therapy. I will remain within my scope of practice when engaging with you and my work, and will refer out to qualified individuals for more aligned support when necessary.

I acknowledge the privileges I hold as a working class white American citizen with settler ancestry and post-secondary education who can pass as neurotypical, straight, and able-bodied. While my position as a queer, disabled, neurodivergent person has allowed me to generate more insights and compassion into these lived experiences, I am committed to listening, learning, decolonizing, and growing in regards to other areas.

With gratitude and respect, I acknowledge that the land on which I live and work is the ancestral territory of the Haudenosaunee and Onondaga peoples. I aim to live in a way that centers reconciliation and meaningful relationship building between the people of this land and how we care for it. I invite you to reflect on your role in reconciliation and the Land Back movement at www.native-land.ca.